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Growing old and gay

By Phyllis Steinberg | Aug 11

Phyllis counsels a mother who is concerned about what will happen to her gay son when he gets older.


Other Recent Columns

Teenager struggles to help suicidal gay friend

By Phyllis Steinberg | Monday Jul 12, 2010
Phyllis offers advice to a gay teenager who is struggling to help his suicidal friend cope with his parents’ disapproval of his sexual orientation.

Lesbian high school student faces constant bullying

By Phyllis Steinberg | Monday Jun 14, 2010
Phyllis counsels a lesbian high school student who faces constant bullying.

Parents want to send gay son to reparative therapy

By Phyllis Steinberg | Tuesday May 11, 2010
Phyllis counsels a man whose parents want to send him to reparative therapy after someone outed him to them.

Gay man seeks ’pretend girlfriend’ on Craigslist

By Phyllis Steinberg | Monday Apr 12, 2010
Phyllis responds to a question about a gay man who turned to Craigslist to find a "pretend girlfriend" before his parents came to visit him.

Aunt expresses concern over cross-dressing nephew

By Phyllis Steinberg | Monday Mar 15, 2010
Phyllis advises a mother who is concerned about her eight-year-old nephew’s long hair and his decision to wear girls clothing in public.

Mom struggles to accept lesbian daughter’s long-term relationship

By Phyllis Steinberg | Thursday Feb 11, 2010
Phyllis offers advice to a mother who expressed shock over the news her 24-year-old lesbian daughter has been dating a woman for four years.

Mom struggles to find other parents of gay and lesbian children

By Phyllis Steinberg | Thursday Jan 14, 2010
Phyllis counsels a mother who continues to struggle to meet other parents of gay and lesbian children.

Home for the holidays

By Phyllis Steinberg | Friday Dec 11, 2009
Phyllis offers advice on how to deal with potentially homophobic and awkward comments from family and friends over the holidays.

Mother’s gay son and his partner come home for Thanksgiving

By Phyllis Steinberg | Wednesday Nov 11, 2009
Phyllis counsels a mother on how to refer to her gay son’s partner when they come home for Thanksgiving.

Mom ponders whether to tell family her son is gay

By Phyllis Steinberg | Wednesday Oct 14, 2009
Phyllis offers advice to a mother who is unsure she should tell her extended family her son is gay.